Playing Chicken

A bit over 4 months in and I think that might be a pretty fitting title for much of our time here so far. That and I figured I can come up with some cheesy analogies. Frogger, Cat and Mouse, also could have been appropriate titles, but I had to pick one, so here we go.

Backing up.

This is my first blog post. Moriah has done an excellent job at keeping everyone up to date, but we felt like it was time for me to do a bit of writing 🙂

I have been doing a lot of driving so the inspiration for the title stems from the feeling that one might get just about every time they get out on the road. Eventually you realize that there is some amount of organized chaos (Moriah’s still not quite sure) and it’s not so bad. That being said, the journey always seems to include some type of adventure along the way even when the road looks so smooth ahead. And that is where the title blends with our everyday and includes more than just driving.

Oncoming Traffic

Feel free to interchange ‘person’ with every instance of ‘car’ in the somewhat appropriate yet terrible metaphors below.

  • Try to avoid the oncoming car with the flashing lights. It’s in your lane and wants your attention, but do your best to steer around it, you want no part of it.
  • The car in front of you may be driving slow, but be patient it’s a new driver and the journey will just take some extra time.
  • The car flying up behind you is a taxi carrying a lot of people. It might stop as soon as it gets in front of you to drop off or get more people, but don’t get too annoyed, it actually is getting a lot done.
  • The other car flying by has a driver that has someplace to go. You can help it along it’s journey or you can slow it down, take your pick.

Okay, I am done with car/person metaphors. I can’t think of anymore and they are a bit cheesy, but you get the idea (and if you don’t get it, comment below and I can explain in more direct terms). Working your way through the traffic, the relationships, etc. can feel a bit chaotic at times, but as long as we rely on the Lord’s strength rather than our own, than we know we can get through it.

Now onto a bit of what I have been up to.

As mentioned in our newsletter, which you can see here if you missed it, we have been focused on relationship building and not so much on the implementation of new projects. That does not mean we are ignoring the projects that are already in motion.

I have put a good bit of my time working with Smile Africa Ministries (SAM) with the primary goal of working towards more food sustainability. Currently almost 100% of their food is donated. Having a feeding program of ~350 outside kids on top of the ~70  full time resident kids, it is a tall task to be sure. I have been working with some of the older kids on their small gardens inside the SAM compound geared towards educating and relationship building. The kids are seeing a difference and it is great.

The older kids from Smile helped to build a compost pile.
The older kids from Smile helped to build a compost pile.
Adding materials to the pile.
Adding materials to the pile.
1st Pile turning. It was so hot 2 days after making the pile that the guys could not stand on it in their bare feet to turn!
1st Pile turning. It was so hot 2 days after making the pile that the guys could not stand on it in their bare feet to turn!
Finished the 1st turning.
Finished the 1st turning.

SAM has 3 acres about 15 minutes away in a local village. I have spent more time there in the past few weeks. We’ve built a compost pile, demonstration gardens, and are working with some of the local villagers with more training to occur at the end of this short growing season.

Putting in the 1st of 3 demonstration gardens. This one will have corn.
Putting in the 1st of 3 demonstration gardens. This one will have corn.

The guys at Bamba Forge keep getting better and better. With the recent visit from Tim Troyer and Jesse Hemphill the guys are quickly becoming masters in the art of knife making. I’ve got a barrel full of rice ash to take to the guys that will assist in the annealing process next week. The kids at Smile helped in collecting enough rice stalks to burn down into ash.

These rice shafts were burned down to create rice ash to aid in the annealing process at the forge.
These rice shafts were burned down to create rice ash to aid in the annealing process at the forge.
Jesse Hemphill teaching the guys to forge a simple blade from a coil spring.
Jesse Hemphill teaching the guys to forge a simple blade from a coil spring.
New sawmill under a temporary shelter until the permanent one is built.
New sawmill under a temporary shelter until the permanent one is built.

That concludes my update. Any questions, feel free to post them in the comments.

Thank you for your continued prayers!

Life

A lot has been going on around here, but I’d have to say one of the most exciting things has been the arrival of Tia Jia! We’ve been initiating her into our daily life here in Uganda and sharing our four whole months of wisdom! The girls have been enjoying having Tia Jia around and are always excited to see her in the morning. Lillie has decided that Jia’s name is now Hannah. Ask her where Jia is and she’ll point to her. Ask her what her name is, and she’ll shout Hannah. I think she may do these things on purpose!
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The week that we picked up Jia, we stayed around Kampala to meet up with our director, Tim briefly. We also visited Bamba Forge again where Dustin got to check in on everything, we got the “petting zoo” experience with the cow and pigs, and Gracie got to “help” make a knife.

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Now that we have been back in Tororo this week, we have spent time at Smile, caught up with some of our friends here, and enjoyed being back in the swing of things.  Soon we will have been living here for four months! It’s crazy how fast it has gone and how much we have learned and experienced in a short period of time. It is also crazy to think of all that we want to do and see accomplished, and how fast that time will slip away from us. We continue to pray that God will help us build His kingdom and we will not work to build our own.

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Life Update

Last week I failed to post an Africa update because Dustin was at a Farming God’s Way conference in Kampala for six days. The girls and I had a pretty successful and relatively low -stress time together.

This was our first time alone without Dustin for that long. About an hour after he stepped out the door the gas for our gas burner ran out. Our electricity was also out, so we had no way to cook. Called Dustin and the crisis was averted after Dustin called a friend who came and filled up the tank for us!That night I decided to plug in our bug zapper. It was already plugged in so I turned it on and *pop* *spark* *buzz*! Somehow it was plugged in without the additional converter we needed. I thought I’d killed the bug zapper! Thankfully the light bulbs had just blown, so I didn’t totally fry it. Our puppy also got sick that week after another puppy on our compound had recently died. Our puppy sadly died that Saturday-I’ll spare you all the details. I will tell you though that Gracie probably handled it better than I.

“It’s ok mommy. The puppy is in heaven now and can play with the other puppy and the other dogs in heaven can take care of them.” She’s a smart cookie that one.

Why does everything happen when daddy’s away!?  But honestly, over all things went well. It was good for me to feel like I was managing and in some cases thriving in our new environment with the girls. It felt good to support Dustin in his growth and let him be confident that things back at home weren’t completely falling apart while he was gone! Dustin is back home now and we are definitely glad! This last week has been a low stress, laid back week with lots of family time. Thanks for all your continued prayers and support!

For anyone that would like to receive a quarterly e-mail updates on what we are doing here in Uganda and the projects that Dustin is working on, please subscribe to our newsletter here. Now enjoy these adorable pictures of the girls!
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Around Tororo

This week has been the usual ebb and flow of the mostly typical week we have gotten use to here in Tororo. Dustin took time to get out of the house and work on sending e-mails, research, and those type of things he can do without having to travel.  He also had the opportunity to go see some land for potential projects, and to help harvest ground nuts this week. As a family we spent a few afternoons at Smile Africa playing with the kids and spending time with the babies. I also attended one of the widow’s classes this week where they go through character training. Next week I even get to read the group the English text…good thing I’m not the one that has to translate though!

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Photo by Lisa Rovenstine

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We traveled to Mbale yesterday to renew our tourist visas. All went smoothly and now we pray that over the next three months the paperwork goes through for NGO status for Forest of Hope and we can get our work visa through that.

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There have also been times for good relaxation and fun this week. A play date, dinner with new friends, pool time, and getting to eat out at a great restaurant, Endiro, while in Mbale.

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Three months has almost passed and Tororo is starting to feel familiar and like a place we can call home. We of course still miss our family and friends back home, along with the simple pleasures of summer in Ohio, though we are not missing the rain you all are having! But good relationships are being built here and wonderful memories made. Tororo has much to offer and we are excited to continue this journey that God has laid before us.

Sipi Falls

Last week when the group from our organization, The Reckoning International, was visiting, we took a trip to Sipi Falls. We got up at 4:30 am. That’s right, you read that correctly. A.M. We picked everyone up and got around to leaving by around 5:30. A few hours later we were driving up the mountain, amazed at the beautiful scenery and picturesque waterfalls that could be seen from a distance.

Once we arrived, our guide took us on a short, steep hike. It was colder than we expected and the spray from the waterfall gave a sharp chill as we got closer and closer. Lillie had the whole hiking with comfort thing down as she got to ride in the back pack. Gracie was a trooper, but when her little legs couldn’t make it, Dustin carried her along.

It wasn’t very long before we reached the waterfall. We took pictures as we got sprayed by the water and took in the beauty and power that surrounded us.

Here are a few of the pictures to give you a little taste of some of the beauty you can find in Uganda. God is an artist, and it is so evident here!

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Love From Uganda

The month of June FLEW by! With how quickly June has come and gone it’s not hard to imagine that at the end of our three year term we will look back and wonder where those three years went! We continue to grow accustomed to Ugandan living as each day passes and we are so appreciative of the continued prayers and support we know many of you have been sending our way. We thought that now that we are a few months in, it may be a good time to update our prayer requests!

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As a family we ask for prayer for continued safety and health. We have been blessed with both so far and pray that as we continue traveling (occasionally longer distances to Kampala, which is a four hour drive) we will be granted safety. We also ask for prayers that our visa situation will continue to progress and the paperwork would go through speedily and with little or no complications.

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Dustin-prayer to continue meeting the right people needed to help projects progress and thrive. For wisdom and safety as he travels, builds relationships, and plans his next steps. For patience with those he works with as he often has to wait on others to fulfill their tasks first and patience at home as we adjust to a new family schedule.

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Moriah-prayers for guidance and wisdom as she seeks more defined roles at the orphange (Smile Africa), and continued guidance in her continued roles as wife, mother, shop owner, friend, etc.  For patience, confidence, and courage to love without fear at home with her family and also with those she meets and forms relationships with.

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Gracie and  Lillie- prayers for patience and peace as they often have to wait longer for things or through things than accustomed to. For a growing understanding of the importance of kindness and generosity to those we meet and a desire to strengthen their walk with the Lord.

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Thank you again for all the support and love you have sent our way. We are so thankful for each of you and want you all to know that you are appreciated and are a great blessing to us!

Love from Uganda,

The Steiners

Here and There//A Day in Our Life

We’ve been in Uganda for over a month now! There are still times when I look around me and I think, “Wow, I’m really in Africa!” That may seem kind of weird, but it still amazes me at times that part of God’s plan for me and my family was packing up and moving half way across the world to a place I never imagined living. Even a year ago, I’m not sure that I would have imagined how I would be spending my days in Africa. For those of you interested in what a typical day looks right now, I’ll give you the run down. This will be continually evolving as we are still settling in on some level, and as new projects and focuses become evident.

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As a mama, I try to wake up early before the girls to get in a little time to myself. Maybe work out a little, do devotions and pray. About 75% of the time, even if I wake up at 6 am, this is done with the girls wide eyed and bushy tailed in the living room with me. Sometimes daddy gets to sleep in till seven, and occasionally the girls sleep till seven, though  this is rare!

Breakfast by 7 (because they’ve already been up for an hour). A lot of mornings making African tea is part of the routine. Gracie likes hers with honey. If it’s a Saturday, we’re making pancakes!

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AFRICAN TEA

Black tea (African tea or garden tea)

2 cups of milk

2 cups of water

Combine milk and water and seep tea packets or loose leaf African tea in pot on medium high until it starts to boil. Take off burner and if using loose leaf, strain the leaves. Add desired amount of sugar and serve hot. Will make about 4 cups of tea.

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Start doing laundry. There is ALWAYS a load of laundry to hand wash in buckets and hang dry on the line. It hardly ever rains in the morning, so at least you know it will dry!

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On a typical day I try to do some school lessons with the girls. We read a Bible story, work on our ABCs, sing, do workbooks, read, art projects, those sorts of things. Dustin may try to get some e-mailing done and make needed phone calls.

Some days we head into the market.  Other days we may take a walk, or maybe just stay home, get some cleaning done, turn up the music and dance it out. By dancing I mean jumping and flailing.

Lunch and naps. A needed break in the middle of the day for us all!

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After naps we often take it easy. Relax outside, or if you are Gracie and Lillie, you will walk up on our neighbor’s porches, chase chickens, or get your legs nipped by all the puppies.  This week we have also gone to the orphanage, Smile Africa, a few afternoons to hang out at the baby center. What do I do there? Hold babies!

Thursdays we often go to fellowship (kind of like a church small group) with the girls. This usually means one of us is inside the house trying to pay attention and the other is outside watching the girls.

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We’ve slowly started exploring more as we’ve settled into our new environment. Some days we may go to the pool that is a short walk down our road. We have made the trip to Mbale a few times (a 45 minute drive) where we have learned you can find less common household and food items, swim in a nice pool, and eat American food! Salad and a burger never tasted so good! We have even made the trip to Kampala (a 4 hour drive) and visited a Reckoning project that Dustin is overseeing.

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There are days that involve meetings and planning with people for Dustin, Skyping with family and friends, and always lots of relationship building. The evening are a time to relax, work on projects, keep record of finances, and try to plan ahead.

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There are so many things different about our days here, yet some things that seem just about the same. We realize there are  a lot of things we took for granted in the U.S. and are learning new ways to do things. It’s a blessing, an adventure, and a challenge all in one! Thank you for all your support and prayers!

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Uganda House Tour

Welcome to our home. If you hopped on a plane to come visit us, or you happen to be reading this from Uganda and want to go grab a boda and come on over, here is what you would find. I didn’t particularly clean up for these pics, so this is the real deal.

Porch

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Living Room

The living room is really coming together since we got our couch and chairs last week.IMG_6596

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School/Play Room

The girl’s play area and room we have been having our “school lessons” in.IMG_6587

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Kitchen

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Bedroom

We all get to sleep together. You get the good, bad, and the ugly, but mostly good.IMG_6591

Bathroom

We have an actual toilet for those of you that were worried we would have to use a squat pot.IMG_6593

Address

We are working at getting an address for those that are wanting to mail things. Apparently since our landlady does not pay for a box at the post office, things cannot be shipped here.

 

Joy

No matter where you are, you’re circumstances aren’t always joyful. Your day doesn’t always go smoothly. Everything you planned on doing doesn’t always get done. You don’t always find everything falling into place perfectly and effortlessly. It doesn’t matter if you’re in Ohio or Uganda-some days just don’t appear joyful.

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I was recently reading one of the She Reads Truth devotionals on the fruits of the spirit. One particular post that has stuck with both Dustin and myself was the devotional on joy. It was emphasized that joy is not found in our circumstances. It is not found because our day went just as planned, we had loads of fun, or accomplished a lot. Our joy is found in Christ. So even on the days when we’re tired of everyone staring at us, we really wish a Dalton Dari-ette would magically appear in Tororo, or we just miss our family and friends,we can still find joy. Even when everything is strange, and new and the learning process and relationship building feels slow going, our joy rest in knowing that Christ alone guides us.

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The gift list continues…and you can see I haven’t posted it in awhile! In these gifts I find so much joy. Not just because these are things that make me happy, but because of the joy that is found in giving thanks to the Lord who has provided these things.

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I’ve also reached 1000! And here I start back over,  with new friends in a new place.

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Lillie saying “kitty” and “hi kitty”//Lillie point to things when asked and saying “there”//Gracie tracing numbers//zoo day//hikes//Lillie’s feet and fingers in creek//Emily’s baby shower//movie with Dustin//gentle breeze and a babbling brook//Lillie’s warm cheek and smell//cleaning out house//friends and family to help//lunch date with a new friend//Gracie sleeping with leg in the air//supportive church family//walks in woods with Dad and Lillie//fairy garden//Elsa braid//girls running around in church//Uganda countdown//time spent with family and friends//Gracie and Lillie’s first boda ride//Dustin killing cockroaches//mosquito nets//skype with mom//rain//cold bath water//chipate and curry//naps//chairs//clothesline//hugs from kids at orphanage//driving around Tororo//Gracie’s arms around my neck//Lillie’s restless sleep//Lillie saying “book” and “rock”

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fellowship with new friends//nursing in public//being malaria free//Gracie dancing on stage with other kids at church//Lillie backing up to sit with you and read//girls playing in mud//skype with family and friends

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